Today Is A Special Day

Saturday, 17 April 2010 at 9:09 am Pacific USA Time.

Today is a special day for me. Just wanted to take a moment to share it with others.

On 17 April 2009, I decided to make some serious life changes. The decisions weren't easy to come by, but I got there.

I had moved away from Tucson to try to make my boyfriend happy. On 17 April 2009, I realised I hated where we lived, and there was no making him happy. Neither the city nor he looked like they were working out for me. By early May, I had decided to where I'd move, and I left a few weeks later.

I tend to stay in bad personal relationships too long, so I wish I had come up with the idea of leaving him roughly around 17 April 2007. But at least I got away… though living with him for those weeks in between… not fun. Really bad actually.

So today, think about where you are, and what you want to change. Think about the things that just aren't going to work. Don't get down on yourself for it… these things happen. But make the change that needs to be made. Don't just talk about it.

And ladies, just know that moving for a guy rarely works out. Live where you want to live. If that naturally undoes the relationship, then the relationship wasn't in the cards. Or so I believe.

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One Response to “Today Is A Special Day”

  1. dogimo says:

    Same goes for the fellas!